The Mediocre Meditator

Sunrise, Sunset

Sunrise, Sunset

I've come to think that the fact that you meditate is more important than when you meditate – the right time of day is whenever you can make it happen.  What I have found, though, is that for me, mornings are best, and the earlier the better.  It’s...

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Dry Spell

Dry Spell

Dry spells happen. Sometimes I know why and sometimes I don’t. My usual strategy if I’m just not feeling it, or if it feels like I just don’t have time, is to let go of any time goals and just sit down for a minute. A minute or two and a few deep...

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Help, Thanks, Wow

Help, Thanks, Wow

The title of this post is taken from Anne Lamott’s book of the same name. I’ve pretty much separated my meditation practice from any specific religious practice. Having said that, sometimes when I am sitting with my thoughts I find myself talking...

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Here I Am, Now I Am

Here I Am, Now I Am

No matter how much you aspire to just letting thoughts pass by, there are times when thoughts just cycle and cycle. I’m not really one for mantras or guided meditations, but sometimes I need a little help to stop the spinning. Some might say that...

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Clenched Fists

Clenched Fists

Like I’ve said before, your body will talk to you a lot when you meditate.  My body talks a lot louder than my thoughts, and even though I know it is a good idea to be “in touch” with you body, sometimes I miss the times when I had no awareness of...

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My body has a lot to say

My body has a lot to say

It seems like for most of my life I went about my business and my body did most of what I wanted it to without bothering me too much.  It’s possible that what I experience when I’m meditating has nothing to do with meditation and everything to do...

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Can I Get A Do-Over?

Can I Get A Do-Over?

It is inevitable that you’ll get interrupted, so then what do you do? Maybe the interruption is self-inflicted, a phone call you just can’t ignore, or maybe it is someone walking in the room. Do I give up for the day, or start from where I am, or...

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Is It Time Yet?

Is It Time Yet?

Two of the most common questions I hear, or hurdles people seem to anticipate, center around time. The first challenge is finding the time. There is no question about it, I’m fortunate in the sense that I have space and I have opportunities for...

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Sometimes you get a sign

Sometimes you get a sign

OK, I’m going to get just a little mystical again here, but maybe I can take the edge off it.  You know how a lot of people think that there’s something lucky about a pair of socks, or a favorite hat, or some kind of ritual.  Seems like a lot of...

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Adventures in April

Adventures in April

Even up north in Chicago, where we ping-ponged between eighty degree days and snowfall in April, you can feel the energy stirring. We had a great road trip this month down to Atlanta.  Actually I was tagging along as the “trailing spouse”, a role...

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