Uncharitable

Uncharitable

In 2013 a man named Dan Pallotta gave a TED talk that went viral. He made a passionate case for changing the way we evaluate charities, that by focusing on how little they spend instead of how much impact they deliver. Whether it changes your mind or not, it’s worth a listen.
Now a movie has been made that expands on his message and adds several compelling case studies.  I participated in a group discussion, kind of like a book club discussion, but a license was purchased allowing everyone to watch the film in advance.  It’s also available for rent or purchase on several streaming services.
If you support non-profits, or if you are involved as a staff member, volunteer, or board member, I hope this is already on your radar – if it isn’t, consider giving it a look.
A Meditation Reset

A Meditation Reset

I’ve been meditating for years, but like a lot of things we do routinely I think I’ve gotten a little sloppy with it lately.  So, I’m hitting the reset button, trying to put a little more intention behind the mindfulness part of mindful meditation.
The idea that the mind will ever be entirely quiet when we meditate, or that if we don’t achieve that we have somehow failed, keeps a lot of us from trying.  The mind will always chatter; my to-do list, my dreams, my fears, always show up when I sit down.  The goal isn’t to make the thoughts never arise, it’s to avoid following them, and then following the next one, and the next,  until you aren’t where you are anymore.  That’s the reset that needs to happen for me, exercising the gentle discipline of bringing myself back to the moment, to the breath.
AI is not invited to my Morning Pages

AI is not invited to my Morning Pages

I’ll never ask AI to summarize my morning pages.

Of course I repeat myself – my worries – my dreams

That’s the point.  The repetition is the key to what is unresolved, to what is important.

The path to change – from the pen – to the page – to the heart

What Makes an Heirloom?

What Makes an Heirloom?

When does a quilt, or anything else, become and heirloom?

Recently I passed along this double wedding ring quilt that I made 30 years ago in the first year of my marriage to a couple just starting out in theirs.

It never had a label before, but the one I added said it was made with love and patience and persistence.  And it occurred to me that I meant the quilt and the marriage both.

Dynamic Dots

Dynamic Dots

Continuing on my theme this summer of resolving paintings and drawings that have been languishing for quite some time. This one was started in a class that explored all kinds of experiments with golden proportions – according to the scrawled notes on the back, dynamic rectangles in a square in this case.
Fun colors and scribbles and when the white dots made an appearance I decided to declare it resolved.