The Mediocre Meditator

Where do I begin?

Where do I begin?

Once in a great while, when I am meditating and I do that body scan thing . . .      I can’t find all the edges between me and everything else . . .           Like, where do my  hands begin and end . . .                  And it’s amazing and...

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Find the Signal in the Noise

Find the Signal in the Noise

It’s a noisy world, and I think a lot about trying to find the signal in all the noise that matches the rhythm I want for my life. And that’s why I meditate.                         

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Floating Meditation

Floating Meditation

Anything involving water - me in the water, me around the water - just makes meditation better for me. That's why I have to share this experience even though it was years ago - it was called a Himalayan Sound Bath. It took place in a swimming pool...

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Stimulus and Response

Stimulus and Response

At our house, this quote from Victor Frankel is often repeated: Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.      Cultivating that space, and the...

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It’s the Exhale

It’s the Exhale

Do you have a favorite kind of breath work?  There are lots of patterns that help to regulate, stimulate, and relax. What I've noticed, though, is that left to my own devices I spend far more time taking in than letting out,  so when I have a...

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Eyes Wide Shut

Eyes Wide Shut

Many experts who know a lot more than I do about various schools of meditation practice believe the best posture is one that includes open eyes, downcast gaze. According to Pema Chodron, author of “Uncomfortable with Uncertainty” and many other...

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Toes in the Grass, or the sand, or . . .

Toes in the Grass, or the sand, or . . .

This summer I've finally re-explored the delights of meditating in nature. If you heard where I lived, in a downtown high-rise, you'd assume that wasn't on the menu. I'm lucky because right across the street I have not only a park, but a sandy...

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My Type of People

My Type of People

I’ve written before about Meredith Hite-Estevez, who leads an online cohort through The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron, is a mom, professional oboist, a coach for artists and creatives and about to be a published author.  AND a podcaster.  This...

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Meditation on the Road

Meditation on the Road

As attached as I might be to my little nest at home, one of the great things about having a regular meditation practice is that you can take it with you anywhere. Having travelled quite a lot in my life, it’s nice to have a practice that really...

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Focus

Focus

I've gotten up and down three times since I started to compose this post.  Isn't meditation supposed to help me with focus?  Or maybe without it, I would have gotten up six times by now, scrolled a little, and washed my hair. I'm going with that...

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